I have a good husband, but I’m always irritated with him

Our salaries are enough for daily expenses and some small savings. My husband’s parents died early. I don’t live with my parents, and they have enough income to not need too much financial help from me.

My husband is a good man. He’s always supportive of me and shares the housework. When he goes out drinking with his friends, he always tries to come home early.

Our marriage life is stable. However, I always feel a sense of irritation. When my husband does something wrong, however small, I have the urge to scold him and even the urge to break stuff in the house.

At first, he tried to soothe me, but gradually he’s begun to just leave me alone whenever I get irritated. I know that I need to manage my emotions better, but I don’t know how. I also get sad because he no longer makes an effort to soothe me.

I wonder if I have mental health problems. I look forward to your advice, readers.