My husband sends money to a woman over the last four years

We have settled in the U.S. for the last 20 years. Recently I found out that he often sends money to a woman named Trang.

When I asked my husband about it, he said she lives in Vietnam and her child is sick, and that he sends money to help her. She is living with her husband and two children.

I trust my husband though we do argue about that incident. He has sent her money for the past four years totaling up to $10,000.

He began messaging her on social media in February 2019 and continued doing so until November 2022, which is when I first learned about it. He frequently messages other ladies, I should add.

I learned this before, but this time is different because it has to do with money issues. I really want to get divorced.

However, given that we have two kids together and I am three months pregnant, I am really perplexed.

Dear readers, I’m hoping you can provide me with some guidance.